I’ve mentioned a time or two that I am a geek over numbers. Since I use YNAB for my personal finances, I have hoped to use the same software for my business. In evaluating how the budget was set up, I didn’t see any easy way of adjusting all the budget categories to fit what I needed for my business. You can only imagine the excitement surging through my veins when I received an email from YNAB stating they now have a small business option for their already amazing program.Think of the excitement you experienced as a child when you were given a toy that you pined after for months.

Insert transition.

I’ve reluctantly used Quickbooks for all of my accounting needs prior. I dreaded the thought of moving all my financial data over, but being that it’s still the first quarter of the year, I knew that if I was going to make the transition time was of the essence. So I took the plunge. Within just a few hours, I had all my financial data transferred into YNAB and absolutely love it! More »

I’ve had many conversations in recent months that went something like this:

What do you do for a living?

I’m a social media manager.

That has to be the best job ever! How do you like it?

It’s great working from home and interacting with thousands of people every day, but it’s more work than you probably would think.

How can it be that much work? I mean you just have to post a few things every day. That’s not much.

 

It’s about that point where I sigh and shake my head.

Outwardly, social media management appears to be very little work. It seems like the perfect job that you can do on the fly. In reality, social media managers work long hours and know laws and regulations regarding content sharing inside and out and must research within the constraints of those parameters set forth by federal and state government bodies to provide content for fans of a company. Additionally, there are more hours spent evaluating and gauging interaction with fans based off the types of posts, days of the week where there is more interaction than other days, when to announce a contest or fun event given the trends of a specific fan base, and more.

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I gave notice to The SafeCig earlier this week, providing them ample time to find a replacement for all of their writing and social media needs. Since then I’ve had a few emails start to trickle in with kind messages of gratitude and farewell.

Since September, I have worked no less than 60 hours in any given week, including the week I had surgery. I’ve only taken one day off – the day of my surgery. I’ve worked every single day of the week. In six months, I have worked the same number of days and nearly the same number of hours has a full-time, 8 to 5 job equals in one year. That’s more than just a job – it becomes a large part of your life. My position as a Social Media Manager has been a major defining part of my lifeĀ  . . . and in the lives of my family. More »

Life through the eyes of a child is amazing. Each moment has the potential to be filled with grandeur, excitement, and adventure. Imagination flows freely and a pair of gloves can become flippers or claws when worn on their feet. It matters not what the world says, for little people exploration is their game and the world is the playground.

My husband and I have recently set out to change the lives of our children. Part of that decision was to increase the fun moments of their lives and build beautiful memories they can carry forward as they age. The other part, the more personal part, had everything to do with the mass I found and had removed from my breast. That experience, to this day as I continue to heal from surgery, has changed our perception on life. It doesn’t matter the number of hours I spend working, it doesn’t matter what that income brings into our home, it doesn’t matter if we purchase a house and pay it off within just a few years — none of that matters to our children, the ones who want to experience the grandeur of the world. What matters is the fun they have and the smiles and laughter along the way. More »

There might come a day in the near future when I discuss more about what is going on, but for today, I just need the space necessary to gather thoughts and emotions that come and go with quickness.

I met with the surgeon today.

The great man that will take a scalpel and slice through skin and tissue to reach the bits and pieces that need to be removed. It’s all a bit unnerving.

So was talking to family.

Picking up a phone and telling people you love that you are going in for surgery and the back-story to that call is difficult. We didn’t share what was going on with family members until we knew that it was time to do so — that time came today when surgery was scheduled for Valentine’s Day 2012.

But at least there will be no more days of waiting and wondering, no more question of what is growing, no more hours lost to worry — only moving forward. Progress.

Progress is the word I will choose to embrace.

Progress, only progress, is acceptable.

Sometimes you expect to hear something that you don’t. Instead, you are faced to reassess your life and goals. It’s almost perfect timing that I’ve ended employment with the company where I served as an editor. I actually was looking forward to a few other changes I was in process to make. That abruptly stopped, like a child outside who hears the ice cream truck during the hottest summer heat wave of fifty years before bellowing inside for money to please his senses.

Not many events in life bring my plans and direction to a halt. I’m always working towards a very specific goal, no matter that those goals change as time evolves.

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It’s been a long week. We’ve still battled issues related to my youngest son having RSV. The lack of sleep has caused hiccups in all of our schedules and my ability to hone in and crank out work like normal. My husband and I have talked about how taxing all of this has been on me and our options available based off a variety of factors. At the end of that discussion (and further consultation with my son’s Doctor), we’ve decided it is best that I reduce my workload by at least half.

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I’m beginning our financial process of preparing for our move. With all of our January bills current, I have begun allocating funds into February’s expenses even though they are not part of January’s budget. This might seem a bit confusing, so I’ll recap:

I use YNAB (You Need A Budget) as our tracking tool. I actually came across this program over a year ago and tried it out. I liked it then, but wasn’t in a position to invest in the program. We were barely making ends meet, if you even want to call it that. We were poorer than poor and a $60 purchase was out of the question at the time. As soon as I had the funds available, I purchased the program.

YNAB breaks the paycheck to paycheck cycle. It teaches you how to budget in a way that the money you earn this month pays your bills next month. You are always saving and never without. The program works well with my methodology of handling finances very well. But I’m not following that methodology in January – at least not in part. The money I’m bringing in this month is still covering February’s expenses, but I’m making those payments in January. At least as many of them as I can. More »

I hate racial terms.

Let me say that again

I hate racial terms.

I strongly despise the word hate, too.

People deserve to be treated equally. It doesn’t matter what a person looks like on the outside, it is the character of the person that makes a difference. Each and every “race” has met criticism at one time or another. Religious groups have attacked others for their beliefs. People have been killed for the color of their skin and the sound of their voice. People are attacked on every corner in every far reach of the world; for doing nothing but being him or herself.

People, with beating hearts and minds of their own, stand up every day and encourage others to accept people for who they are; not what they look like or where they live. Can I be a person that reaches out into the dark abyss of the Internet and be one of those people; the one that shares part of their life in hopes that others will change the way they view those around them? Can I hold steadfast knowing. . .

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I’m a recovering workaholic. I’ve never been one to sit and watch multiple movies in a row, but we’ve recently had one night where movies, food not prepared by us, and some sweet treats was just what the doctor ordered.

First up was Mr. Popper’s Penguins.

This movie was adorable. Although my children were not too interested in the flapping black and white suits, my husband and I laughed, smiled, and wanted more. The story line was simple enough for children to understand, but in my opinion catered to adults with the parent-child and parent-parent relationship conflicts. There is definitely enough fun and entertainment for an older child’s entertainment, but for a three-year-old. . . Not quite. I certainly enjoyed the twist with Tavern on the Green in the movie.

Between movies, we handled all the necessary needs of our youngest son with medications and CPT. When that was done and our three-year-old was pinging off the walls once more, we popped in Moneyball.

Moneyball was not quite what I expected in an overcoming-the-odds baseball movie, but it was good. I normally end up in tears with sports movies of this nature, but this one wasn’t that way. For an inspiring and faith-moving movie, there are many others that better serve the purpose. The unique spin on this movie was using a computer generated tool to find the players and watching the Athletics return from an extensive losing streak to win 20 games in a row; all with a bit of belief.

Last on our list of movies was The Help.

The Help was heartwarming, heart-wrenching, and enlightening. I’ve long followed and loved the history of the United States from settlement through civil rights movements in recent years. I fell in love with history when I read about the underground railroad in Uncle Tom’s Cabin when I was only 8 years old. I’ve long maintained a sense of compassion for all persons being persecuted for any number of reasons. This movie was especially moving for me due to those passions.

I fell in love with characters, Skeeter appealed greatly to me as an aspiring writer and woman who sought truth to make a positive difference in the lives of many. The familial conflict with Skeeter is extreme, but a conflict that many can understand with ease. I relished in the banter back and forth between African-American maids, noted how quickly people were ostracized from social circles, and the spitefulness that erupted. The Help was, by far, the best of the three movies we enjoyed.

The late night stemming from watching movies left our entire family tired, but we’ve all felt much more connected thanks to taking time to play, engage, and entertain. We will definitely be doing this a bit more often, though likely not so many movies in a row. At some point in the near future (when our youngest son is doing better) I will be back on schedule with all my projects. Until then, I’ll relish in the joy that was had during our first bit movie night in years.